How to get a Cam girl's attention?

Tips & Tricks Aug 30, 2021

So you are visiting Stripchat and using some time to find the perfect model that you are attracted to. Now how do you get her attention? How do you get her to remember you and respond to your messages and always looking forward to seeing you again?

Here are 3 very important steps to achieve that.

1. Spend Tokens

I’m sorry to lay this on you, but in this world it’s very hard to get noticed if you are not spending some tokens. Remember, the webcam model is at work, being online is in most cases the only source of income she has.

Just imagine someone coming to your work, trying to get your attention and wasting your time when you try to put in the hours and earn your hard earned cash?

Also, the model will naturally give attention to the other members in the room that is tipping her and will need to put the attention to them and not to some grey users that are asking for free stuff.

Now, this doesn’t mean that you always need to spend tokens everytime you come into the room, but in the beginning you need to get noticed and show that you like what you see. A generous tip with a funny tip note would be the perfect way to start out a new long term relationship.

2. Be noticeable and add value to the chat.

In a chat room there are a bunch of different personalities. The three main ones are the “Fuck Boy” who always and only is asking to see tits or ass, most of the time without tipping for it. Annoying for everyone, we know.

The second one is the “Prince Charming”, and yes this one is in the room to say all the nice things. But just imagine someone is telling you how nice your eyes, your lips, your ass and your tits are. After a while those comments just peels off even though the model will most likely thank the member nicely for the compliments.

The third one is where you should aim. The funny and smart one. Sometimes we found that cheesy chat up lines are the best. Make them laugh, and she will notice you. One camgirl told us that a member made her laugh so much that she didn’t remember how she got naked on the bed. So this is your goal.

If you can also hold a good conversation in DM, or add value with helping her to keep the chat calm and nice, you also add value to the model and she will definitely be remembered.

If you are wondering what her interests are, then read her profile carefully. If the model took the time to set up the perfect profile, you will really get to know her and to you combine that in your chat material.

3. Have confidence in yourself

Yes, confidence is the key here, but remember you are not face to face with the beautiful model, unless your confidence is super high and you’re already jumping on the cam2cam features.

You don’t need a lot of confidence, you don’t need to be boisterous or really rude either, you just need to be natural and let your persona do the talking.

After all, if she doesn’t like you as you, she isn’t going to want you no matter who you pretend to be or claim to be afterwards.

Don’t ever think you're not worthy. There are attractive hunks and there are unattractive slumps. Models see them all and they are not judgmental so never fear your model, and never fear yourself.

Over time, and the more you get to know your model the more your self confidence will perk up. You will get to know her better, get to be part of her life, perhaps on a personal level etc. The realms of possibility are endless.

Conclusion

So there you have it, spend some money with the model, show her that you care. Be the funny and interesting guy. Trust us, the model knows a good member behind the username once she sees the good messages. Don’t be needy or jealous, be confident and cool.

Or maybe most important, don’t be someone else, be yourself.