The art of teasing on cam: tips from top performers

Psychology Jun 14, 2023

How to get ready and host an outstanding teasing show?

As cam models try to stand out in the crowded world of cam shows, they often focus on coming up with new and groundbreaking ideas. But in the quest for uniqueness, they can forget about the basics that can actually generate serious cash.

One of those basics is teasing. Teasing shows can be a simple yet effective way for models to earn more money. In fact, you might have already done a teasing show without realizing its potential for income.

Teasing is an art in webcam shows and it's worth mastering if you want to keep users interested. By giving pleasure in small amounts and making the other person withdraw, you can increase their desire and make your show much more exciting and fun for them. This technique is mainly used to create tension in the target and establish power dynamics, making it fall under the BDSM umbrella. As the dominant person in control, you get to decide when the user will reach climax.

We’ve gathered tips from top performers on how to do cam teasing, so if you’re ready to explore the world of teasing and dominance in your next webcam session, this article is for you.

Start with the right clothing

When it comes to any show, the setting is crucial as it sets the tone for what’s to come. As for clothing, the idea is to tease with just the right amount of skin showing. A skirt that reveals a little but not too much, a blouse that can be adjusted to show some cleavage but leaves room for the imagination… The goal is to create suspense, even if your ultimate plan is to end up naked – that’s up to you!

Bonus points if you remove your panties but leave on the skirt – that’s enough to drive anyone crazy!

Tease, tease… and repeat

It’s no secret that arousal isn’t strictly physical, but rather psychological. Since sex drive starts in the brain, the most powerful teasing happens way before the physical stage, which is why there is foreplay and even foreplay before the foreplay. The latter is what you should aim to focus on first: a cheeky gaze, a candle-lit room, and of course a bit of dirty talk. All of those are elements that shouldn’t be missed in your teasing show.

Getting down to the nitty-gritty, there are a lot of options to choose from, as there are many different ways you can do a teasing show. One that never goes wrong and is very popular, is playing with the restriction of mobility. You can instruct the user to put handcuffs on or to tie himself up to the bed, so that he’s restrained while you tease him. And by tease I mean a striptease, flashing your assets, dirty talking, touching yourself, etc.

JOI (jerk-off instructions) is something you should also consider integrating into your teasing show. JOI’s premise is simple: you give the user very detailed and descriptive instructions on how and when to masturbate themselves by focusing on the head, the shaft and the balls. In short, you’re in charge of when they reach orgasm. But in order to make it “teasing”, you must not give too much too quickly. When you see that they’re about to climax, instruct them to back off and thus prolong their pleasure.

Finding the sweet spot

Teasing is all about prolonging the seduction game to delay climax time. But, it's important to strike a balance so viewers don't get bored waiting for something to happen. To achieve this, pay attention to their reactions, what they say, and the tips they give you. Be receptive and ask for their feedback to ensure they are enjoying what you're doing, just like you would do during sex.

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